[clem]

Well, Julie...'m not saying that Bart won't appeal; obviously by the responses on the board he does, but the appeal is pretty vanilla and feminine(wouldn't you agree?). I mean, he's even got a LOL in there. 'Used to be, and I have no reason to believe that it's much different, that the initial love-talk between committed couple considering swinging went something like:
He: I..I..want to see another man with a gigantic cock
get on you..ah..ah
She: Really? Do you want me to take it...?
He: Yes, and put it in...
She: ..and suck it..
He: YES! and ride that monster...
etc.
Ultimately, impersonal pornography is boring and I understand your being underwhelmed by countless photos of dick, dick, dick. However, there are some things about participating in the Lifestyle that are like making your own private XXX-rated movie; taboo-busting and not too social, fairly crude and downright nasty and without them you hear/read complaints of "it's just not working for us, they/we are not the right body types, we have problems the day after."
Clem