 Mr here
First off, you shouldn't be so hard on your self. If you are that uncomfortable with your self you may have a hard time enjoying swinging because you will have to be naked in front of other people. Swinging takes a good bit of self esteem.
Secondly,
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes, there is no rule to how you have to look.
If you want to know what the people inside a swingers club looks like, take a walk through your local grocery store.
Or better yet, check out an ad site for swingers, such as Swing Lifestyle . It is a site where people put up ads to find others who would be interested in joining their play. Most ads have pics up. I promise you will see everything from short to tall, skinny to overweight, old to young, bald to hairy and everything in between.
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