 Re: Boundaries with single women??
Hi, I am one of those elusive Unicorns. I hear your concerns. When I play with other couples, we talk alot first. We set up guidelines, about physical and emotional play way ahead of time. I am in the process of getting to know a couple that is new to me, I have talked to the female C. several times and I feel very comfortable with her. Her husband is charming and I guess just an average guy, I would have no idea of trying to move in on him. I think the first guideline should be that if you want to play you have to talk about how you feel about everyone first. Talk about what boundaries to set physically, then move to the couple just being friends at most with the single girl. I find it kind of funny that we can play in the most intimate way possible with others physically, and yet those same people can't talk about what they feel (they are too vunerable) Huh?! I try to remember what I tell my son, if you can't talk about sex and how it feels... then you can't do it. I think the same goes for us. Good luck
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