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Hawk14 · 05-18-2005, 09:34 AM

Yeah, I noticed that...I'm very bi and I've been so excited about this...I know she has some interest in this, as she had a very mild encounter a year ago but not really a true bi experience. She doesn't talk a lot about the bi thing and the excitement she has about it. Maybe I'm wary a little because the last time we talked this long with a bi female (and were both convinced that she would come through)...we found out that what she REALLY was looking for was my hubby to do her....that came loud and clear after a discussion with me about how sex starved she was (as are some singles obviously). She was really looking for a man. That one was also a little too over the edge anyway for me in her weirdness!! This new lady has stated that while she is bi-curious she would never seek a woman out because she would need a man present. Being married, I have done all my bi activity with hubby around so I TRY to understand that one although I'm not really clear on her reasons. I guess we'll see how it goes...I want so much to go into this with a positive attitude and just have fun...but also have that underlying radar still up and active. By the way, I just did an extensive search here and still haven't found a set of boundaries and rules that other couples have when dealing with single women.

05-18-2005, 09:34 AM	#5 (permalink)
Hawk14 Active Member Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Maine	Re: Boundaries with single women?? Yeah, I noticed that...I'm very bi and I've been so excited about this...I know she has some interest in this, as she had a very mild encounter a year ago but not really a true bi experience. She doesn't talk a lot about the bi thing and the excitement she has about it. Maybe I'm wary a little because the last time we talked this long with a bi female (and were both convinced that she would come through)...we found out that what she REALLY was looking for was my hubby to do her....that came loud and clear after a discussion with me about how sex starved she was (as are some singles obviously). She was really looking for a man. That one was also a little too over the edge anyway for me in her weirdness!! This new lady has stated that while she is bi-curious she would never seek a woman out because she would need a man present. Being married, I have done all my bi activity with hubby around so I TRY to understand that one although I'm not really clear on her reasons. I guess we'll see how it goes...I want so much to go into this with a positive attitude and just have fun...but also have that underlying radar still up and active. By the way, I just did an extensive search here and still haven't found a set of boundaries and rules that other couples have when dealing with single women.