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Old 05-18-2005, 09:12 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Boundaries with single women??

Dynamar made some very good points. As the female of a couple, who are looking for the single female, I always keep my radar up for those that have more interest in my husband then in me. My first caution would be that she is only bi-curious. Although not bad, I would really see if she has any interest in me. Has she told you why she is bi-curious? Does she relate to you the fantacies she has about another woman? What turns her on about the female body? If it simply the fact that the three of you can get together to fuck your husband, it would be a definate red flag, unless that is what you are looking for as a couple. We look for a bi woman who is interested in woman also, as I am facelick She has made several compliments to you about your husband. What does she say to your husband about you? I know it easy to over analyze a situation, but I would definatly not play with a female that has exclusively made her feelings known about my husband, but has all but eluded the fact that I am bi-sexual and need that flirting and fantacy play too. Although the single bi female is very hard to find, I would not risk a deep emotional attachment to my husband in order to have the experience. Please let us know how it goes!
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