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Originally Posted by Hawk14 Last night I learned that she removed herself from a site because she wants to concentrate on just us. Well, in its context, we appreciated that...she has class, doesn't want to sleep around, etc. |
I'm most piqued, and potentially wary, of this part. (And I'm single!) Is an exclusive relationship something that the three of you have discussed? Is she expecting the two of you to be exclusive with her? Are you even interested in that?
You didn't say in so many words, but it sounds like to me that you are concerned the woman is getting too attached to your hubby. I would have the same concerns. Let me ask you this... does she seem attached to you equally? i.e., are the two of you are like girlfriends who talk about all kinds of things... boys, makeup, clothes, etc? Or do you feel her attention thus far is focused only on him?
Were I you, when the three of you meet, I would definitely make an effort to engage her one-on-one in conversation. Make sure she is giving each of you attention. Perhaps if you go to dinner, you could sit next to her while your hubby sits opposite.
For my part as a single woman, I appreciate gestures like this because they show me the female half is as into the experience as the male half... that they're together in their quest. But for your purposes, you going out of your way during the meet to engage her will perhaps help you see her motives. (Gosh... motives... sounds so sinister! Not trying to say she has sinister motives... but best to be sure, right?)
Please let us know how your meet goes