[Hawk14]

Hi...great board and so informative! Here's my situation (female half of couple). My husband and I have been into the lifestyle for about a year. We started out with single bi-women (I'm very bi!) We had some good experiences with it. Seeing that the bi single women are truly elusive, we moved onto couples. Even in that time, we have continued to try to find that elusive woman. We have gotten so close at times but they've quickly dropped out of sight when it almost became reality for them, rather than fantasy. Now we've finally found her and it will become a reality this weekend. This is the IDEAL situation for me personally because I've had some issues with couples, although we've had good experiences with several. So I've been very excited about all of this. Now to this one woman we'll be meeting...we have a lot in common, have chatted every night, exchanged pics and found that we had some mutual acquaintances which has made her very comfortable with us. Generally, I always initially met the lady beforehand (for coffee and a get-to-know her meeting) by myself and then we proceeded from there. I have been so comfortable with this new lady. To let you know, she has never been with a couple and is only bi-curious. I've read several booundary questions here but never anything that related specifically to a couple playing with a single female. My hubby is a charmer and has chatted a lot with her and we've had some hot times together fantasizing about this woman. She has taken a quick liking to him and has stated over and over how great and sweet he seems. Last night I learned that she removed herself from a site because she wants to concentrate on just us. Well, in its context, we appreciated that...she has class, doesn't want to sleep around, etc. As a woman, I'm filled with intuition and very cautious about these things. What I'd like to know is what others feel would be some boundaries or thoughts of how to carefully proceed and make this a success and not a disaster....thank you!