[BiDrywallChick]

I wanted to add my 3 cents worth before I get grooving on my house work. All of the advice you have been given has been excellent food for though, esspecially the part about not all fantasies should become more than fantasies.

I wanted to say on the personal add / morality issue... perhaps its a little like this. By you suggesting the ads, not only have you taken the "power" out of her hand, but you have also put a less " emotional" equation to sex. Maybe that is why she reacted the way she did. I am not saying that its a good or bad way to look at sex. I just can see how someone who doesn't have a sepparating between sex for fun and sex as an expression of love might panic at the thought of meeting "strangers". Perhaps she is wanted what some couples have, the close friends with benifits type relationships. Whether or not those work in real life.. that is a topic for another thread.

As far as the church comment someone made about looking the preacher in the eye sunday morning... That is a real doosy,, or it used to be for me. I figure with everything that I have done in my life, if getting some extra booty from someone is going to send me to hell, then I never stood a chance to begin with... Not to mention the fact I used to have to go to confession every day when i went to catholic school. I am so going to hell for making the priests blush! To be honest, I'll prolly be driving a gas truck to get there.. anyone want to call shot gun?