Before getting involved in the lifestyle, I use to think that too, "penetration = intimacy". My views has changed since then...Now I feel that whatever feels "intimate" to YOU is intimate.
At times, I feel a tiny tint of jealousy when another female is giving my hubby a blowjob, rather than the two of them having intercourse! It doesn't bother me as much now, I'm getting much more comfortable with it...
On the other hand, I get an erotic turn on watching hubby's cock slide in & out of another pussy!

Go figure...*lol*
I know....It sounds crazy, but hey....That's how "I feel".
Wife of Cyber
MWCouple
[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 01-22-2001).]