You have probably answered this question before and I just missed it, but what are your boundries? And Julie, what are the things you will only do with your husband? Forgive me if I'm asking you to be repetitive. Point me in the right direction and I can go there to read your answers.
My husband and I don't really hold anything back when we trade partners. But we only trade with our closest friends. We have known them for years. They were in our wedding. But we have done everything with them that we do together. I don't think we will open up to another couple but if we did our rules might be different. When you have been friends for a decade before you start swinging with a couple ... well... there just was no thought of holding back on anything. It all just ... happened. |