I suppose I can accept it either way so long as they don't tell me to "kiss off!"
I find it interesting that when we are with our friends on a non-swap evening the guys will always peck the other wife on the cheek to say hello or goodnight. But on the swap nights the hello kiss is much, much, more. That tells me that they understood the talk we had with them about how we didn't want them to automatically expect sex everytime we were together. The guys obviously talked and orchastrated that little peck on the cheek thing. It's a nice touch that I really appreciate! |