As everyone knows who monitors these posts, I frequently add alternative ways of approaching and looking at things. That is simply my nature. Here goes again:
I think that we must always remember the essential role that sex plays. God made it to keep a couple together. (Sorry, if anyone is offended by seeing that word in this setting) But God made sex as pleasureable and as powerful as he did for very good reasons. Last week for reasons relating to our kids, I was soooo angry with my wife for two days that I could have "killed" her. But my cock overrode my anger and I initiated sex. She fucked me great! So great that I not only was no longer angry with her, I felt close to her. God made men so that we can have sex even when we feel angry or totally disconnected to the female. However, God made women so that they generally need some level of connection to their lover in order to have sex. Even the most promiscuous female need some level of interaction/connection in order to have sex. Men generally can fuck a complete stranger without exchanging a single word. If his cock is hard, he can stick it in. Women want to know something about who is attacted to the cock she desires.
That is why a woman can topically be involved with a male partner for a few interactions. But, I think you will find or have already found, that when people enjoy fucking each other over a significant period of time, there will be a strong emotional bonds that is created. Don't fight it! The emotional responses to sex is as instinctual and as natural as our physical responses of sexual arousal and climaxing.
[This message has been edited by soppo (edited 05-23-2001).] |