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I know I need to talk to her but I have no idea how to broach the subject. |
Well, when we first meet or chat with a new couple, one of the questions we ask them/HER is "Are you Bi/Bi-curious"? If she says "No", that's cool and we respect their choices. Of course, we let them know of our sexual choices/preferences, we don't necessarily have to swing with couples with "Bi" females....
If she say "Yes", we usually ask HER/them what bi-experiences they've had? What turns HER/them on? What did SHE/they enjoy most about it? It becomes an interesting subject most times!
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Another COOL thing about chatting with other couples in the lifestyle, we can discuss almost ANYthing about SEX!
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Originally posted by AmyS:I also know the guys would like to watch us together. I don't know if the idea of being with her turns me on or not. I know it gives me butterflys if that means anything. |
I know that my hubby and the other hubbies enjoy watching the females in sexual activities together! Trust & comfort plays a BIG part in swinging, no matter what combos you're looking for! If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't, that's fine too! I find that talking about it with the other female(s) makes it a whole lot easier! Once you two know where you're cummin' from, what turns you on, what doesn't turn you both on, knowing both your boundries and limitations (if any), etc....Only then, can you both comfortably encounter your desired bi-adventures.
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Originally posted by AmyS:The thing that really DID turn me on was seeing my husband's sperm leaking out between her pussy lips. I had never touched another woman before that night but now I have not been able to stop thinking about it. |
What was it that you can't stop thinking about that "touch" of her pussy? Was it the feel? Curiousity of having any bi-experiences with her? Questions running thru your mind such as maybe:
What would've happened if "I" acted upon it?
How would I have "touched" her pussy again?
Would I have used my mouth, maybe my fingers, probing at her G-spot, sucking & licking her clit? Maybe all at the same time?
Does it make you wet at the thought? Tingling & twitching inside? Maybe fantasizing about it and sharing it with your hubby about you & her having any bi-experiences?
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And you know what? THAT'S how/where it started for ME! Hubby & I shared these fantasies together for AWHILE before we ever acted upon it, and even the thought of swinging too! And when it finally happened, it was AWESOME & SO EROTIC! The RUSH was UNbelievable!
http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/eek.gif You'll know when you're ready, and if this is what YOU want to try....And when you do, you'll do what feels right to you! We did....
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Wife of Cyber
MWCouple
[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 01-19-2001).]