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01-18-2001, 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by AmyS:
....It gives me butterflies and a head ache all at once. The last time we swapped my husband put my hand on her pussy after he came in her. I knew what he wanted but I wasn't sure what she thought of the idea. I'm not even sure what *I* think of the idea!

Have you talked with your female friend (of this other couple) of your feelings about having any bi-experiences with them? Both of you & her sharing these feelings & thoughts together really makes a BIG difference too. This way there's no guessing games or ill feelings (like you're experiencing with them headaches & butterflies, etc.). And it helps with enjoying any new sexual experiences for all of you! http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/wink.gif

Just take your time and move at YOUR OWN pace. No one should push you into doing anything that you're not ready for. If it happens, it happens, if it don't, it don't. Don't pressure yourself, just relax and continue to do whatever it is that you enjoy doing! YOU'LL know when the timing is right, YOU'LL know when you're ready to venture into maybe having any bi-experiences, YOU'LL know especially when the MOOD is right! As long as YOU are in control of the situation, and you & her are ready to take on this new adventure....Believe me, YOU'LL know! http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/biggrin.gif It sounds like I'm rambling on here, but if you need clarity on any of this here, I'm more than happy to help out! http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/smile.gif

As I mentioned in an earlier post on the "Bisexual Females" section....For me, the timing and chemistry is important to help set the mood....I get turned on by my hubby being turned on just watching me give the other female orgasms after orgasms! I enjoy turning on another female the way "I" like it! Although I've never had any problems with the males that we swing with of turning me on "the way "I" like it" either! http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/rolleyes.gif............. http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/biggrin.gif

ANYway....*lol* Hope this helps! Communication is VERY important! Take your time and relax, just do what cums naturallly! And at the meantime.....HAVE FUN & ENJOY YOURSELVES! http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/smile.gif

GOODLUCK!
Wife of CyberMWCouple

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 01-18-2001).]