[good times]

As others have said, good communication with each other is very important. Being able to communicate with each other about our feelings in a non combative way allows us to resolve any issues that might crop up.

I think one of the main reasons we have never experianced anything like this is that when it comes to sexual play, we don't have any rules or boundries. After reading this and discussing it together, we have come to the conclusion that we can't think of anything one of us could do with a sexual partner that would bother the other in the least. We are in this to have fun, so if it feels good, we encourage each other to go for it.