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Linda · 05-10-2005, 04:51 PM

I had one mfm experience with my ex-husband that was a complete disaster because he believed I did something differently with the other man than I did with him and he freaked out about it. I am now re-married and have a loving, secure relationship and feel ready to try again. Keep in mind my previous experience was about 8 years ago and we went into it without any ground rules, with the exception that we would not use the experience against one another, no matter what.

So how do you handle the "morning after" if you feel hurt or angry about something that happened while sharing yourselves with others? What are some groundrules for working through these feelings so that you can each grow from the experience? And how do you ensure that each partner stick to the rules?

05-10-2005, 04:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
Linda Registered Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 3 Location: NM	Guidelines for the "Morning After" I had one mfm experience with my ex-husband that was a complete disaster because he believed I did something differently with the other man than I did with him and he freaked out about it. I am now re-married and have a loving, secure relationship and feel ready to try again. Keep in mind my previous experience was about 8 years ago and we went into it without any ground rules, with the exception that we would not use the experience against one another, no matter what. So how do you handle the "morning after" if you feel hurt or angry about something that happened while sharing yourselves with others? What are some groundrules for working through these feelings so that you can each grow from the experience? And how do you ensure that each partner stick to the rules?