[northindycpl]

It does take time to meet the right couple, and the board is right... sometimes feelings can be hurt, that is just they way it is.

As Mr. Indy says, " Some days you eat the bear, and some days the bear eats you!"

Whenever you put yourself out there, in this capacity, you open yourself up to rejection. The important thing is that you are putting yourselves out there for you. Your pleasure. Your experiences. Mr. Indy and I play with far less couples than we do play with, and always have a great time together. We go to clubs- to play and have hot times with each other- if we meet others then fine, if not then fine, too.

I would like to mention to you guys, that I, too go for personality over looks. Size is unimportant to me to a degree. What turns me on the most is a couple with confidence. Do you guys think you are a confidant couple? Especially now since there has been some rejection?

My words of encouragement are: Look your best, feel your best and walk into any situation confidant in your own abilities. Disregard anyone that won't take the time to get to know you. (do you want them as friends anyway?) And go into every experience in the lifestyle with the only expectation of bringing emmense pleasure and joy to each other.

Trust me.... When you approach it like that, People will be knocking down your door!

BTW, Welcome to the board. I hope you two stick around. You sound great!