 Re: Need a little advice
My husband and I see others separately as well as share a few partners. The arrangement works for us and our marriage.
The one unbending rule we have is that we meet the other's potential partners face-to-face. There are a few reasons why this is our rule:
1) My husband is concerned with my safety and he wants to check out any man who is going to be with me. I want it clear that I am happily married and not looking for a replacement mate.
2) I want to meet any women he is seeing to let them know up front that no cheating is going on and that my husband is available for friendly sex; he's not looking for a second wife.
3) If I am going to meet a woman lover, I want her to meet my husband in case they are attracted to one another. If so, then it makes FMF play an option. We have been fortunate to find one special lady that loves both of us...together, separately, and as a social friend.
4) A couple of the single men I have taken as lovers have proven to be good friends of both of us...good friends are always welcome in our life.
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