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SexhoundDog · 05-06-2005, 01:02 PM

Nujax,

I'm in definite agreement with those who are concerned about the safety of their wives, so 'nuff said there. Although your wife may lust after her co-worker a little, you don't know him well enough to know if he's just some guy who's OK with screwing your wife or if he's some guy who might be potentially interested in having her as his girl. Your wife may know the score on this better, since she works with him.
I'd almost be inclined to not bring it up for a little while just to see how interested she is. Based on several of her comments, I'm betting she's just as anxious to bring it up again as you are. Gotta love anticipation!! facelick

Anyhow, if you and your wife discuss it further (and I'm betting it isn't far off), I'd mention your safety concern, and I think she'll think even more of you for it. I'd also ask her what she thinks the co-worker would think if things started to warm up a little and before they got too far along, she made it a point to let him know that you were OK with her exploring a little but that you ultimately wanted to be on site or an involved playmate. I'd think the MFM sounds delicious and I would think your wife would think so too after she feels comfortable having you around. But you never know what the co-worker will think. If he thinks you're kinky, that's cool as long as he likes it. But it is possible the idea of you being around would be a turnoff to him. If that's the case, I don't think he's ultimately where you or your wife want to be. Although I can understand her initial reluctance to have you watch (after all, it is a kind of strange concept), I would think based on her statement about possibly contacting a couple, that she wants it to be a team sport, and to that I say, good for her. You've got a good woman!

I think someone else mentioned bringing your wife on board to let her read a few stories. There's a wealth of info and great advice on this place, and if nothing else, some of the situations couldn't help but keep the sexual flame stoked. Good luck, and be sure to let us know how the adventure pans out!

05-06-2005, 01:02 PM	#15 (permalink)
SexhoundDog Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 357 Location: Colorado Status: M.Male	Re: Need a little advice Nujax, I'm in definite agreement with those who are concerned about the safety of their wives, so 'nuff said there. Although your wife may lust after her co-worker a little, you don't know him well enough to know if he's just some guy who's OK with screwing your wife or if he's some guy who might be potentially interested in having her as his girl. Your wife may know the score on this better, since she works with him. I'd almost be inclined to not bring it up for a little while just to see how interested she is. Based on several of her comments, I'm betting she's just as anxious to bring it up again as you are. Gotta love anticipation!! facelick Anyhow, if you and your wife discuss it further (and I'm betting it isn't far off), I'd mention your safety concern, and I think she'll think even more of you for it. I'd also ask her what she thinks the co-worker would think if things started to warm up a little and before they got too far along, she made it a point to let him know that you were OK with her exploring a little but that you ultimately wanted to be on site or an involved playmate. I'd think the MFM sounds delicious and I would think your wife would think so too after she feels comfortable having you around. But you never know what the co-worker will think. If he thinks you're kinky, that's cool as long as he likes it. But it is possible the idea of you being around would be a turnoff to him. If that's the case, I don't think he's ultimately where you or your wife want to be. Although I can understand her initial reluctance to have you watch (after all, it is a kind of strange concept), I would think based on her statement about possibly contacting a couple, that she wants it to be a team sport, and to that I say, good for her. You've got a good woman! I think someone else mentioned bringing your wife on board to let her read a few stories. There's a wealth of info and great advice on this place, and if nothing else, some of the situations couldn't help but keep the sexual flame stoked. Good luck, and be sure to let us know how the adventure pans out!