 Re: insecure thought
Different is not necessarily better. Just different. And similar to what Mr. Naughty said, if there is no difference (for you AND her), why do it. The happy swinging couples know how to seperate pleasure and fun from love.
And for us, talking about what the other partner(s) did for us at a play session is almost as much of a turn-on as the playing itself. The pleasure keeps on cumming (pun intended).
Lastly, if you agree before that you will try it and stop swinging if either of you is uncomfortable with no bad feelings, then you have a good chance of a good outcome even if it goes badly. And just think, you will have something to look back on and laugh.
Good luck
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