Re: Need a little advice What this thread shows is that there isn't any one "right" way..... personally I would say we would come down pretty close to what Van said. The whole experience is about us, enjoying something together. If the other guy were to be uncomfortable with both of us being part of it then he isn't on the same page we are.
But, as Curious1103 points out, I guess it can work just fine the other way. It just comes down to whatever works for the two of you... something that you are both sure you are comfortable with before you take it to the next step.
Oh, and I don't know when women hit their prime. From personal experience its got to be somewhere north of 45 'cause my SO doesn't seem to have peaked yet.... just keeps getting hotter and hotter. |