 just a quick update
Wow, things have really moved along over the past few days. We talked about this last on Wednesday night. Friday night we were at it again. During our lovemaking I brought it up and she said she was still unsure as to why I want to see her with another man. I explained it again. She kept saying it feels wierd, but kept right on talking about it. After a few minutes of dodging the question about it turning her on she told me that she wasn't sure she could do it with me watching her the first time. I told her that was fine, if she wanted to be alone then we would do that as long as I get all of the details from her. We agreed on that. A little while later we were talking again and she asked if I wouldn't rather get another couple so we could both do it. I told her maybe, I have no real interest in being with another woman, but I still want to see her with another man. This excited her again.
After some intense action we started talking again. She asked whether I thought the other guy should be a stranger or someone we know. I asked what she thought and she told me she would be more comfotable with someone she knows. We talked a bit more and I asked her who she had in mind. After trying to dodge the answer she finally admitted that there was someone at work who would do it, but she isn't sure if he will do it in front of me. I told her that is fine, if she gets the opportunity to do it, to take it as long as she comes back to me with all of the details. She works in a small office where the two of them are alone alot of the time, especially in the evenings. The office is equipped with a small apartment (complete with bed)where her boss stays when he comes into town. After talking with her it seems she has been doing some thinking about this and wants to fuck this guy. I have no problem with this. She was worried that it might come between us. I told her that I trust her and know that she loves me. I told her that the sex is physical pleasure and what we have is way more than that and the fact that she wants to fuck someone else is the same as me wanting her to fuck someone else. I told her that it was a decision that we would both make together and that it will not come between us, but only make us closer. She agreed.
I am just wondering if any of the rest of you have let your wives have their fun away from you like this? We agreed that if she needed to do it that way in the beginning that was fine but that I want to be a part of it. She brought up the idea of another couple, so I am sure that is the direction we are headed. Should I have any reservations about her doing this alone (becuase I don't right now)? |