[northindycpl]

I agree, bringing up the subject outside of the bedroom is great advice. Maybe plan an evening with just the 2 of you so that you can really talk openly about your desires, and her share with you her desires.

I also think that make some suggestions to her about looking on the internet about swinging, bringing her to this board, etc, may help to start some great conversations and perhaps give her the answers to her questions and some of yours. (like do other husbands really do this?)

Good luck!