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Originally Posted by CandTinLorainCo I think truely not to many people care what thier profiles read as im sure many don't truely believe they are ever going to be read to begin with, but if so, lets make them sound good to see if they take the bait or not. |
I care what our profile says, and I would expect anyone who is serious about meeting us will read it. If they haven't I can tell from the first communication from them.
And I've never thought of a profile as "bait" - "lets make them sound good to see if they take the bait or not" is not our approach. I think of a profile as a letter of introduction.
C - Sadly, I think your attitude about ad profiles is the norm for many swingers, it's also why so many swingers sound angry, frustrated, and negative about the whole process of trying to hook up with people through ads. They either don't count on others to be truthful and figure why should they, or they are truthful and demand others not play "games" with them.
A profile doesn't have to list everything about you to be truthful. If you're more comfortable sharing something about yourself upfront before you meet people, then do so in your profile by writing it in or including a picture that reveals it - such as being bald.
There is a big difference between saying you're bald -
your bald head doesn't have to perform 
- and saying your cock is good-sized, gets up, stays up, and always performs well.
LM