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Old 04-20-2005, 05:54 PM   #15 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew
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Join Date: Jun 2004
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Location: Hurricane Alley
Status: Couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists

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That's priceless...

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Originally Posted by northindycpl
BTW, we were once told that someone didn't want to play with us because one of the certification couples was fat. To each his own I guess.
Now, we've had some characters contact us on Swing Lifestyle, but that beats all!!! I'm sure you cried many hours into your pillow that you missed out on that couple!

To rntsvo,
Unfortunately, there is a huge double standard in the Lifestyle. Bi females? Yippee! Bi males? Hell no! There are those that don't feel that way, but there's certainly a contingent that does.

Frankly, I find it curious (no pun intended) that people worry about the sexual orientation of someone who isn't going to be that way with them. For example, any of the guys in the couples we've played with could be bi. Since Drew's not, perhaps they didn't say and never made a move, but they'd still be bi. Not everyone walks around with preferences and sexual orientation on a name tag when you meet someone offline, so you don't really know.

In any event, I wouldn't lose sleep on being blocked. It may chafe your butt a little, but it's really no biggie. Just like when someone blocks the isle at the grocery store like they're in there by themselves, or someone runs a red light---risking the lives of people who have a green light in the other direction, just shake your head and know there are a**holes in the world and you just found another one. Unfortunately, there's no finders fee awarded.

Pepper
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