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graygo98 · 04-20-2005, 02:21 PM

The best way to eat a salami is one slice at a time.

You are correct in assuming that he might react badly to a suggestion out of the blue that you would like to have sex with another man. That's just the way most guys are wired. So, find a less threatening way to engage him in talking about broadening your sexual horizons.

Tell him that you are going to give him a special treat. Buy some sexy lingerie and one of those sorta soft core Andrew Blake videos that have lots of FFM and FMFM action. Talk about what you see ... particular scenarios that turn you on.... when you are into hot foreplay. One thing can lead to another if its not forced... or maybe it won't and that is just something that you will have to deal with.

Its interesting to see this particular challenge from a woman's perspective... most of the time its the husband asking the very same question. Oh, and Mr. Naughty? I think you wrote the first chapter of a lot of our stories. Well done.

04-20-2005, 02:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 395 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: Bringing up the idea of another male? The best way to eat a salami is one slice at a time. You are correct in assuming that he might react badly to a suggestion out of the blue that you would like to have sex with another man. That's just the way most guys are wired. So, find a less threatening way to engage him in talking about broadening your sexual horizons. Tell him that you are going to give him a special treat. Buy some sexy lingerie and one of those sorta soft core Andrew Blake videos that have lots of FFM and FMFM action. Talk about what you see ... particular scenarios that turn you on.... when you are into hot foreplay. One thing can lead to another if its not forced... or maybe it won't and that is just something that you will have to deal with. Its interesting to see this particular challenge from a woman's perspective... most of the time its the husband asking the very same question. Oh, and Mr. Naughty? I think you wrote the first chapter of a lot of our stories. Well done.