 Re: I have a question
To be honest, I am not sure that I would play with a couple knowing they played with a bi-male. Here is why:
Many men say they are straight, because of their perception of some sort of stigma associated with being a bi-male. Although, I believe your explaination of events, if I just met you via email and looked at your profile and saw that you played with a bi-male couple, then I would assume your husband is a situationally bi-male (or bi-curious) and I know that would make me uncomfortable. Remember, the other couple doesn't have your information, like we do.
I would not have just blocked you, I would have sent you an email stating politely that we weren't interested. I do think it is rude that they just blocked you. But, even is swinging you are going to meet rude people.
If this is bothering you, then you can remove the certification (if using Swing Lifestyle) and it won't be an issue again. There are a few posts here that will direct you on getting a certification from Swing Lifestyle, instead of other couples.
BTW, we were once told that someone didn't want to play with us because one of the certification couples was fat. To each his own I guess.
It is much better to find out they are uncomfortble with it now, before you met them, then later.
Welcome to the board, too! I hope you will post more so we can learn more about you and your husband.
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