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Just_us49 · 04-18-2005, 06:50 PM

Mrs. Indy asked about what the size 6 people think so here goes,

I, like Sensuality, am a size 3/4. It is very hard to say things on a post like this. First, I am afraid people will take what I say wrong and be offended. Second, (along the same lines as the first) you can't hear voice inflections and such which can lead people to read things in a way they weren't meant.

Let me say first, we are very friendly people. Even if we are not interested in playing with a couple/person we still love to talk and get to know people. We have friends in the lifestyle that we don't play with but really enjoy their company. Also, we would probably fall under that "beautiful people" category. I only say that because we have been told countless times what a good-looking couple we are and men and women alike have approached us to comment on my body. Yet, we have never seen a place where "all the beautiful" people are that so many un-6's talk about. (Using the size 6/Barbie definition) Every club we've been to have been a mix of all shapes and sizes and looks. And it actually seems like the un-6's get a lot more action and attention than we do. Most people tend to watch us from afar. I think they automatically assume we won't be interested. We are very proactive. Almost every couple we've approached have said they didn't think we'd be interested.

Yes, Mr. JustUs and I tend to play with people built similarly to us. I am told by my husband and others that I have a "hard body". Mr. JustUs likes that build and really is not interested in playing with any woman that isn't built like that. Needless to say he doesn't play much with anybody but me. I am not as picky about the women I play with. Some have been "soft" but their passion is awesome and makes for a great time. Now, I am pickier about the men I play with. I don't like a gut, but they don't have to be cut/built. A mans personality can endear him to me even if he isn't quite what I would normally go for. Just like a gorgeous man can lose my attention in an instant if he is an ass or obnoxious.
So obviously we don't normally go for un-6's but that isn't to say that we wouldn't meet one that clicked with us and we'd play.

I don't think any of the un-6's have anything to worry about. I know several men in my family that say they like "thick" women, women with some meat on their bones. And sure enough they go for women like that. I have been told by men they think I am too skinny for their tastes. I understand that and I stick to the men that do like my build. I think that if your happy with your body and you take care of yourself (hair, nails, make-up, clothes) then there is someone out there that will find you attractive.

Hope I didn't offend anyone and I hope I make sense,
-M

04-18-2005, 06:50 PM	#13 (permalink)
Just_us49 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 153 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	Re: The beautiful people....huh? Mrs. Indy asked about what the size 6 people think so here goes, I, like Sensuality, am a size 3/4. It is very hard to say things on a post like this. First, I am afraid people will take what I say wrong and be offended. Second, (along the same lines as the first) you can't hear voice inflections and such which can lead people to read things in a way they weren't meant. Let me say first, we are very friendly people. Even if we are not interested in playing with a couple/person we still love to talk and get to know people. We have friends in the lifestyle that we don't play with but really enjoy their company. Also, we would probably fall under that "beautiful people" category. I only say that because we have been told countless times what a good-looking couple we are and men and women alike have approached us to comment on my body. Yet, we have never seen a place where "all the beautiful" people are that so many un-6's talk about. (Using the size 6/Barbie definition) Every club we've been to have been a mix of all shapes and sizes and looks. And it actually seems like the un-6's get a lot more action and attention than we do. Most people tend to watch us from afar. I think they automatically assume we won't be interested. We are very proactive. Almost every couple we've approached have said they didn't think we'd be interested. Yes, Mr. JustUs and I tend to play with people built similarly to us. I am told by my husband and others that I have a "hard body". Mr. JustUs likes that build and really is not interested in playing with any woman that isn't built like that. Needless to say he doesn't play much with anybody but me. I am not as picky about the women I play with. Some have been "soft" but their passion is awesome and makes for a great time. Now, I am pickier about the men I play with. I don't like a gut, but they don't have to be cut/built. A mans personality can endear him to me even if he isn't quite what I would normally go for. Just like a gorgeous man can lose my attention in an instant if he is an ass or obnoxious. So obviously we don't normally go for un-6's but that isn't to say that we wouldn't meet one that clicked with us and we'd play. I don't think any of the un-6's have anything to worry about. I know several men in my family that say they like "thick" women, women with some meat on their bones. And sure enough they go for women like that. I have been told by men they think I am too skinny for their tastes. I understand that and I stick to the men that do like my build. I think that if your happy with your body and you take care of yourself (hair, nails, make-up, clothes) then there is someone out there that will find you attractive. Hope I didn't offend anyone and I hope I make sense, -M
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