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Originally Posted by bethjane My husband has never mentioned anything like this to me, and I wonder if he has ever thought about it. How do you even bring up such a topic after a 15 year monogomous relationship? |
The mere fact that in 15 years of marriage he's never mentioned it tells me that it's not real high on
his list of fantasies.
Maybe a better place to start "exploring fantasies" would be with one which you both share? Surely, there's at least
one that you've both considered? If not, it might be time to consider some sort of
quid pro quo arrangement, in which you each agree to indulge the other in a fantasy, even if it's not something you, personally, take a particular interest in.
Have you considered another couple?