 Re: Bringing up the idea of another male?
First off remember that swinging is not for everyone and sometimes Fantasies are best left as an fantasy.
As far as your husband is, only you know that for sure. You have to be able to be totally open and honest with him for you to even think about this. I am hoping that you two can talk about anything and everything openly and honestly so that you can also talk about this.
You might just want to show him this thread and board. That would be a way to bring it up.
I have always found the best way to deal with anything is in it's simplest manner. You seem to already be looking for a way out "if he reacts bad."
Assuming can always make things much harder then they really are.
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