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Old 04-12-2005, 09:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
northindycpl
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Default Re: Reaction to guys who can't get an erection

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Originally Posted by hilltop
Great replies all!

Sounds like everybody tries to work with it the best they can and I agree, when it gets personal it's usually over. It's too bad that when the ol' ego raises it's head, It gets tough to raise the "other" head back up.

Honestly.. I have been surprised by the male reactions to PA. I guess going into swinging I expected that this would be a problem, not unlike any other problem and swinging men would have a better attitude towards it. I mean when you are in a sexual environment, so many things can happen that are unplanned, I would have expected swinging men to be the most relaxed about it.

As a woman it is better for me to meet a confidant and honest man with PA that will work with me to have fun than to meet a man with a hard cock just looking for a place to stick it.

On the flipside, I wouldn't let a little thing like my ass jiggling in the sex swing ruin my good time. I wouldn't want a man with PA let his ego ruin his time either.

It is difficult to be a vain swinger.
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