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Originally Posted by starlinn Lets turn this around a bit. I know how it makes me feel when it happens. I wonder what I have done wrong. Being that I am a newbie, and have never had the experience with another couple, it is one of my fears. I would wonder if he is not interested in me. Does this happen to other women? |
I've only had it happen to me a couple of times and the women always seemed to take it personally, I even had one ask me if it was because she just didn't turn me on. Their are so many things that can contribute to not being able to get it up, but at least in my case, it was never the womens fault. The problem is that if the woman does take it personally it is pretty much over. On the other hand if the woman has a good attitude about it and comes back with something like "let's do something else for a minute" then chances are the erection will happen on its own soon enough.