I wish it had been my spouse who brought up the idea of swinging first, but, she has known my desires for some time. I sometime ago, finally got enough courage to whisper in her ear about sharing her and once the initial shock wore off, she admitted that the fantasy was indeed, exciting. When we found this board, even more communication opened up between us and now we discuss the possiblities nearly every day. We both are extremely turned on by the idea. In fact, while grocery shopping the other day, we were both having trouble focusing on the job at hand, because of our sex talks, and we laughed at how much fun it was.
I think that the knee jerk reaction to sharing sex with others is probably, "Why does he/she desire that? Does he/she just want to pass me off to somebody else, start over, etc.?" My answer to that is an emphatic NO NO NO! I love my spouse more than life itself, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. But, pure and simple, I would just love to watch her fuck! She's sooo very hot when she's turned on, and I'd like to share that!
We're obviously, still swing virgins, but, I think if we take it slow and easy, we'll both get 'lucky' before too long.....
