[michelle101]

My husband and I are very open with each other, so a few weeks ago when I stumbled across the swingers board, I asked him, Would you mind if I checked out this web sight. ( not asking permission, just showing respect. )
Of course he said he didn't mind and has started reading some threads already.( We haven't done any swinging yet.) I thought this was how I had brought up the subject,that is until he commented on your question.

He said you should do what I had done. A while ago we were in the middle of some hot and heavy sex when out of the blue, one of my biggest and most secret thoughts just popped right out of my mouth. I whispered to him, " I would love to see you do another woman from behind. " ( in slightly different words, but you get the point. ) I had no idea then, but he said just hearing me say that had made him orgasm. Apparently I had brought up the subject back then and not known it. It has to make me wonder if we are as open as I thought. We had a little chuckle over it.

Anyway he suggests the "whisper in the ear approach" says it worked with him. Good luck