[northindycpl]

I am not sure if this is common, but it does happen.

The biggest issue I have with your post is that it sounded to me like this was something that was not your wifes idea, but yours. I was left with the impression that you forced (for lack of a better term) them to be together and that doesn't sit well with me.

Is that what you meant? Or can you elaborate?

If you have pressured someone to be with your wife and visa-versa, and then watched the whole thing, I could see how this guy couldn't stay hard when you were present.

Honestly, if I have gotten the impression from your post right, I wouldn't blame him for never wanting to talk to you again.