 Re: How to ask husband???
hmmm for me it was the other way around.. my husband brought it up to me. we were never mono while we were dating, so it wasnt a taboo topic in the beginning, it just wasnt in the fore front of my mind either. I think the whole topic came up for us after watching a show on swinging vs poly relationships. Hubby was honest about what he thought was arrousing about it all. I have always been open to new things.. so it was easier for us, i think, than for most. I would suggest warming him up to the idea with some adult movies that have a swinging theme. |