Though my girlfriend and I have yet to get into swinging though we are interested and have talked at length about it. Thing is, though my girlfriend is a beautiful hardbody, and I have a pretty good physique, I may not appeal to everybody. For one thing, I wear my hair very long, almost to my waist. I have a lot of tattoos, most of them I got in prison and they look like it. The problem is my face. I was shot in the face in Somalia during the "Blackhawk Down" incident. Not a good thing when I was pretty homely to begin with.