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Originally Posted by michelle101 Thank you everyone for your advice. RNDNV you made some really good points and gave me alot to think about. I will check out those web sites soon. By the way, full swap does not always mean separate rooms does it? It can mean full swap in same room. Correct? |
Yes michelle, you are correct. Full swap can be done same room or separately. Typically, that can be broken down into another step process as well. Generally, couples who full swap most definitely (but not always) at least start off doing it "same room." However, with repeated experiences (both generally but more especially with a particular couple or group of couples) you might find yourself transitioning to being comfortable with not only separate room play, but separate (time wise) play as well.
Let me give you an example how things could look in time.
Let's say after some years of experience you and yours establish a close group/network of play couple/friends. One of them owns a vacation home and invites you and your hubby along with three other couples whom you all know each other well from prior individual and group play. Well all five couples are real comfy with each other and over the course of a weekend everyone is having terrific fun with each other, and there comes a point where your hubby is beat and tired, and you are horny as hell and want to play with a couple of the other guys who are "up" and ready for it. So your hubby kicks back and watches you play with these two other guys while the wife of one of the other guys sits next to your hubby and they start talking about real estate prices in your home town, all the while the wife of the 2nd other guy you are playing with is in another room having a threesome with some other guy and his wife. Well you are going at it hard and heavy with these two other guys and your hubby grows bored of watching you and is having a good conversation about real estate with this other wife so they retreat to the kitchen to fill up their drinks and talk about home improvement while you continue to have great sex with two guys in bedroom one while three other people are having great sex in bedroom two, and several other people are on the deck getting some sun while your husband and another woman are talking about real estate in the kitchen.
And everyone is all cool about everything.
Sounds nice doesn't it. Geez I love swinging.
Love ya.