The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Should I tell my husband I wasn't having orgasms?

Everlearning · 03-25-2005, 01:17 PM

You said you feel really bad for faking for so long. You also said that his satisfaction comes from pleasing you. I fully understand that. I will gladly do without if that is what it would take to please my partner. You now have the ability to please him very much by the very fact that you are able to enjoy so much more. So, all that to say this: if you want to make it up to him, continue to have as much fun and get as much as you can out of every lovemaking session and he will be very pleased. I know the greatest feeling I get comes from my partners pleasure. I'm sure he feels the same way.

03-25-2005, 01:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
Everlearning Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 17 Location: Tulsa OK Status: couple	Re: Should I tell hubby? You said you feel really bad for faking for so long. You also said that his satisfaction comes from pleasing you. I fully understand that. I will gladly do without if that is what it would take to please my partner. You now have the ability to please him very much by the very fact that you are able to enjoy so much more. So, all that to say this: if you want to make it up to him, continue to have as much fun and get as much as you can out of every lovemaking session and he will be very pleased. I know the greatest feeling I get comes from my partners pleasure. I'm sure he feels the same way.