The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Frustrated and feel our looks are keeping us from finding playmates

Atilla · 03-21-2005, 07:56 PM

Can I just point out that my hubby and I are slim and attractive and it took us forever to find a couple who was willing to swing with us.

Why? I'm assuming because no one was quite as serious as us. We had a lot of people stringing us along or the male of the couple was into us but the female part of their couple wasn't really into swinging. We got very frustrated too and then finally we met our match.

What I'm saying is that it may not be your looks that are turning people away. It may be that these other couples may not be as serious as you are too and when they realize how serious you are, they turn and run.

Keep searching because one day you will find that special couple or person. And of course, you'll probably end up with several people interested all at the same time.

03-21-2005, 07:56 PM	#10 (permalink)
Atilla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 213 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Status: happily married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Nanuq2005	Re: Baby Swingers and Frustrated Can I just point out that my hubby and I are slim and attractive and it took us forever to find a couple who was willing to swing with us. Why? I'm assuming because no one was quite as serious as us. We had a lot of people stringing us along or the male of the couple was into us but the female part of their couple wasn't really into swinging. We got very frustrated too and then finally we met our match. What I'm saying is that it may not be your looks that are turning people away. It may be that these other couples may not be as serious as you are too and when they realize how serious you are, they turn and run. Keep searching because one day you will find that special couple or person. And of course, you'll probably end up with several people interested all at the same time.