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and the ones who are interested are just not attractive to us. It has gotten to the point of becoming very frustrated.
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but we also believe in getting to know people as well before we say no.
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So I take it that ou do go ahead and meet and get to know those who do express interest in you? Just making sure, because otherwise you'd be exhibiting a bit of a double standard.
That said, sometimes you just have to be patient. It always takes time to find a situation where all 4 parties in the two couples are happy with everyone and want to swing. It's not just because of your size or your looks.
It's also important to have good self-esteem and attitude, those two things can make anyone look a lot more attractive.
And if you find someone you like, don't introduce them to your friends
