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Old 03-21-2005, 05:04 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you act with the swap partner

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Originally Posted by camelsmilk
The best example would be that the male doesn"t let his wife perform oral sex on him but allows a partners to do it or vice versa, is that kosher? or, if the husband reacts ecstatically to an act that the swing partner does with him, much differently than he reacts to the wife doing the same act with him
He's an ass, and if the roles were reversed my opinion would still be the same. Basically, he is saying to his partner, you don't know how to give head so rather than work with you and talk to you and tell you what I like and don't like about how you do it, I'm just going to make you sit by and watch while they do it.

He has no care for her feelings in this situation and is going out of his way to make her feel bad.
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