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Originally Posted by Buck ... how did Mrs. SB move from very modest to sex goddess? Just what was the process? ... just how did it happen? ... What was the key for Mrs. SB? |
Hi Buck,
This is Mrs. SB for a change of pace.
It was not an overnight -- presto here I am, a Sex Goddess -- changed from little missy girl scout. Besides all the love and encouragement from the light in my life, my own light within me started burning brighter and brighter through the years. My own self fullfillment and self-confidence had to come first. I also am lucky that my physical appearance got better -- I let the silver gray hair grow in peace and have had an inordinate number of people -- young, old, men, women -- wanting to touch it and raving about it. I think the smoldering light inside started to ooze out and it was like men and women could smell it and I have been getting all kinds of compliments, smiles, flirting eyes and out and out propositions, including one guy who told me he had been burning for me and wanted to bury his head in my bush. Maybe my heat was turned up to high.
One way that I became more fullfilled over the years was to have an open mind, watch different shows about sex, read about what men want, and by being very curious. Also I read the books listed below and more. Some of the books are more 'clinical' and others more erotic. By reading them I found I was not the only woman who had the feelings that I was experiencing. The realizations made me more self-confident and wanting to play more and more. You know, I needed the practice to 'get it right'
so I could guide my lover to take me places I had not been before. I love the erotic and the mind trip. The mind being the sex organ can be mind blowing!
Here's a few of the books...
"Pleasures: Women Write Erotica" by Lonnie Barbach (great author to start with)
"For Yourself" by L. Barbach
"For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Reclaiming your Sex Life" by Jennifer and Laura Berman
"The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt
Any book by Nancy Friday...love these books such as 'My Secret Garden", "Women on Top"
"Delta of Venus: Erotica by Anais Nin" and anythiing else she wrote...she was Henry Millers real lover and featured in the movie 'Henry and June'
"Female ejaculation & the G-spot: not your mother's orgasm book!" by Deborah Sundahl