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Originally Posted by SBcpl I know that opens the door wide to all sorts of things including, for example, my wife telling him, right in front of me, how much better his cock feels inside her than mine does. But that's OK, because why are we bringing an outside stunt cock into our relationship if not to make my lady feel better and more satisfied than she ever has before. I'd be disappointed if he wasn't bigger, harder, and longer lasting than me. I'd be disappointed if he didn't know a bunch of new sexual tricks that will send my wife into complete ecstasy. I mean, if he can't satisfy her more than I do, then what's the point? |
From what you describe above, I think you are very focused on the physical aspects of the experience and how his attributes and talents will satisfy your wife. But have you thought about the emotional--call it psychological even--pleasure your wife may receive?
This is what takes a "stunt cock" and turns him into a human being, and not just an object, which you describe him as in the paragragh above. I'm not implying you're being cold or impersonal, I'm trying to point out that the closeness of the event may be on a level you haven't yet acknowledged.
This deeper, emotional level, can occur and you should be prepared for it. It is the reason that I think many swingers warn against spending too much time on the phone or in chats with a swing partner. A bond can develop that could interfere with you and your wife's relationship.
Something to think about.
I feel your interest in seeing your wife made happy is overflowing from within you. But don't ever feel the sole point of swinging is to find guys who can give your wife more than you do. It will be something different, but not always more or better.
LM