 Re: Something's Not Right
From the viewpoint of an "outsider", I agree with dutch51 that Mrs. did not give permission. I also feel that Mr. took her comments as permission because it was self-serving, and, no doubt, he's tried to leverage her comment into a "miscommunication".
I still feel it's happened before and not just once.
As for the notion that contacting the MIA husband will do any good, I wouldn't count on it. He didn't give his permission with the proviso that Mrs. adventureUS would play the part of a chaperon to his wife. He gave permission to his wife to have sex. Period. For all any of us knows, she gave him the go-ahead to do the same. Even odds that he knows about the four-hour phone calls, too, unless he's totally out of touch. (Common sense here, folks.)
Personally, I can think of no greater pain than to wake up in the morning, hoping against hope, that something that's happened didn't really happen and that, somehow, everything will be as it was before only to realize that it won't.
Don't let "it" control you. Empower yourself and take dutch51's advice to, "...discuss, heal, forgive and move on."
Van |