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mde 4764 · 03-18-2005, 04:39 PM

Bases on the story told, it appears that most of the blame and responsibility for what happened is being placed on the husband. In fact I didn't see where you accepted any responsibility in the matter. All I hear is poor pitiful me and don't you all agree that I should feel the way I do.

You agreed to have this woman come over and play with you and your husband and said that you all had a blast. Joking or not, you did give them permission to fuck after you went to sleep. Now, because they did, you get pissed at your husband and it's his fault because you feel the way you do. If the shoe was on the other foot, would your husband be pissed if you had been fucking while he was asleep?

I think that if you want to save your marriage you need to get over your self pity and being mad at your husband for not being a mind reader. Your actions are pushing him away. You need to go to him in a non confrontational manner and attempt to talk this out before it is to late, if it isn't already so. I feel sorry for you and your situation, but you aren't doing anything to try to straighten it out either.

03-18-2005, 04:39 PM	#45 (permalink)
mde 4764 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 38 Location: Texas Status: couple	Re: Something's Not Right Bases on the story told, it appears that most of the blame and responsibility for what happened is being placed on the husband. In fact I didn't see where you accepted any responsibility in the matter. All I hear is poor pitiful me and don't you all agree that I should feel the way I do. You agreed to have this woman come over and play with you and your husband and said that you all had a blast. Joking or not, you did give them permission to fuck after you went to sleep. Now, because they did, you get pissed at your husband and it's his fault because you feel the way you do. If the shoe was on the other foot, would your husband be pissed if you had been fucking while he was asleep? I think that if you want to save your marriage you need to get over your self pity and being mad at your husband for not being a mind reader. Your actions are pushing him away. You need to go to him in a non confrontational manner and attempt to talk this out before it is to late, if it isn't already so. I feel sorry for you and your situation, but you aren't doing anything to try to straighten it out either.