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Originally Posted by SBcpl Mr&Mrs-Naughty...
Thank you for your words of encouragement. In the backs of our minds we've been a little concerned about whether we're going about this in a sensible way. Are we rushing too fast? Are we likely to run into some unanticipated problems? Is there some disaster lurking around the corner?
But if you guys approve of our approach, then we've gotta be doin' somethin' right! Since we joined this site, you guys have become our role models. 
~ Mr. SBcpl ~
MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...
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Thanks for the kind words.
I think the key is the two of you are going into this completely together. No one is pushing anyone and you are both equally excited.
When we had our first planned MFM we did it pretty much the same as the two of you are planning.
We met through Swing Lifestyle, did some chatting, met for dinner and a few drinks. Mrs Naughty liked him and I got good vibes, so off to the motel we went.
It was an absolutely fantastic time and it went off with out a hitch. We both enjoyed ourselves immensly.
That being said however,
Reality and fantasy do not always mix well afterwards for everyone.
For me, The reality of having two of us pleasure mrs naughty was actualy better than fantasy.
Some couples have issues afterwards. Feelings creep in about feeling "less than" because of the amount of enjoyment the woman will (or can) recieve from the other man.
It's a sexual release and I find it to be
EXTREMELY Hot and fortunately for me so does Mrs naughty. facelick
But not all who try the MFM come away with the same feelings.
So, keep talking and make sure this continues to be something you both want. Make sure it stays 100% between the both of you. Make sure you understand beforehand that once it is done, it's done. There is no taking it back.
If the two of you follow through and there are any feelings of hurt or jealousy afterwards remember this is something you chose to do TOGETHER. You can not hold any negative feelings against someone for something you encouraged them to try.
It sounds like you two are on the right track. I Hope this works out for you guys as well as it has worked out for Mrs Naughty and myself!!
Good Luck & Have Fun!!!!
