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amBIdextrous · 03-17-2005, 02:02 AM

Having just joined I am reluctant to buy into that one. I cannot help feeling that adventureUS may have been insecure about swinging, the effect it may have on her relationship etc.etc. What the whole thing needs is honest straight talk, no heated accusations, and to get your husband to understand why you felt that way.
After all I assume you all had sex together in various ways, and your husband maybe reliving what happened, the memory just got him horny one more time.
I cannot help feeling that insecurity got the better of you, and sincerely hope that you two can work it out between yourselves, and put the whole thing down to experience. We never stop learning about ourselves, our partners, or friends.
I keep my fingers crossed for the both of you, and hope to hear that it all ended well.
Love can overcome anything. Hate mostly hurts the hater.

03-17-2005, 02:02 AM	#40 (permalink)
amBIdextrous Active Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 42 Location: Australia	Re: Something's Not Right Having just joined I am reluctant to buy into that one. I cannot help feeling that adventureUS may have been insecure about swinging, the effect it may have on her relationship etc.etc. What the whole thing needs is honest straight talk, no heated accusations, and to get your husband to understand why you felt that way. After all I assume you all had sex together in various ways, and your husband maybe reliving what happened, the memory just got him horny one more time. I cannot help feeling that insecurity got the better of you, and sincerely hope that you two can work it out between yourselves, and put the whole thing down to experience. We never stop learning about ourselves, our partners, or friends. I keep my fingers crossed for the both of you, and hope to hear that it all ended well. Love can overcome anything. Hate mostly hurts the hater.