This is one reason we don't do the phone thing at all. Other then calling to se if someone needs more directions or if they are coming etc. Too much of a chance to get too personal..I know a lot will not do the computer thing and only do the phone so we are kinda against the grain. I don't like the fact of another man having my phone number to *just call* or a woman with Mr. Midnights number just to talk. Makes it wayyyyyy to personal to me. we will im forever, go into chats etc. but we can save copies of them. That way if we feel someone is too pushy or too personal we can both look at it and go hmmm..we have ran into some couples also who don't like the concept we tell the other who and what we talked about
for what ever reason we hear don't you trust...trust has nothing to do with it....we just need to know everyone is on the same page...we run into men who are talking a whole different game from the woman...and that we need to know...since Mr. Midnight works nights we are not online a lot together but at different times. And I know one rule unspoken would be no one else in the bed after it was done. That is what couches and extra bedrooms are for...if anyone snuggles with Mr. Midnight it will be me, and I can not see me snuggling with another man with Mr. Midnight there..or any sex happening with one of us asleep...I feel for you....try to talk...
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