The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Frustrated and feel our looks are keeping us from finding playmates

C4CIN · 03-16-2005, 04:06 PM

We don't worry about it- and we are mid 40's too with changing bodies! We don't try to be like we were 25 years ago. We are happy with our ages and our lives. We have found some couples that want only hard bodies, Ken & Barbie types etc. Some of these couples only seem to be searching for perfection or for new future spouses. These folks are not for us... We find more true friends to be ones that look beyond what you described. We are "less picky" for physical atributes too- because we are attracted and married to each other... and this is not about finding another spouse! It's better (and more fun) for us to find friends that play! Sex with anyone other than our spouses is just that- sex. The fun for us is the group, the swapping, and the turn on seeing each other having fun and being pleased...

03-16-2005, 04:06 PM	#8 (permalink)
C4CIN Active Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 28 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Swing Lifestyle Name:C4CIN	Re: Baby Swingers and Frustrated We don't worry about it- and we are mid 40's too with changing bodies! We don't try to be like we were 25 years ago. We are happy with our ages and our lives. We have found some couples that want only hard bodies, Ken & Barbie types etc. Some of these couples only seem to be searching for perfection or for new future spouses. These folks are not for us... We find more true friends to be ones that look beyond what you described. We are "less picky" for physical atributes too- because we are attracted and married to each other... and this is not about finding another spouse! It's better (and more fun) for us to find friends that play! Sex with anyone other than our spouses is just that- sex. The fun for us is the group, the swapping, and the turn on seeing each other having fun and being pleased...